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Mindful dating: where thoughtful singles meet

21st century living can get frantic. Smartphones, business meetings, school runs and general life-admin end up quickly packing out already busy schedules. Being attuned to this and still finding time for reflection may sound like a luxury, but it’s a necessity. Throw trying to meet someone you’re in-tune with into the mix and you might start wondering if it’s at all possible. Well, it is with EliteSingles. If you’re looking to meet someone who understands mindful dating, you’ve come to the right place.
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Integrating mindfulness and intelligent dating

At EliteSingles we’ve tailor-made a service that’s designed to streamline online dating, specifically for single professionals. Backed with years of experience helping successful people fall in love, we’re aware that one of the most important factors for our member’s lives is time. We know that it can be a strain freeing up a few moments, especially when it comes to looking for prospective partners on the web. Add offsetting some of the stress generated by a demanding work-life balance to the equation and things can become a little daunting.

It’s no surprise that over the last few years, the rise of mindfulness has become a much more prominent feature in our lives. Websites like Mindful and apps such as Headspace are evidence of this trend. As modern life defines us, we too must take advantage of technology and use it to our advantage.

At EliteSingles we fully embrace a seamless approach to online dating. Our intelligent matchmaking system has been designed with both accuracy and efficiency in mind. Every prospective member is required to complete an extensive personality test, based on Costa and McRae’s famous Five Factor Model, the results of which are then used to pair you with likeminded singles. Our intuitive algorithm suggests 3-7 high-quality matches based on your answers and desired preferences.

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What does mindful dating mean?

You’ve probably come across the term mindfulness once or twice before. But what does it actually mean, and how can it be applied to the world of dating? Being mindful is very much a lifestyle choice nowadays. It’s a term that’s come to be synonymous with clean living and yoga classes. But what does mindfulness look like in practice?

Yes, maintaining a healthy diet and keeping active are important parts of living mindfully. However, mindfulness is much more of an attitude than anything else. A lot of people suggest that the main focus rests on psychological well-being rather than physical fitness, even though the two are without doubt connected. It’s all about being fully present in the moment, conscious of what we’re doing yet not stressed or overwhelmed by the background noise of daily life. Many people seek solace in spirituality to fulfil this function too.

All sound a bit vague? Well, it’s actually the opposite. Practicing meditation or prayer is a great tool when it comes to refocusing your mind and blotting out superfluous stimuli for a moment or two. And it doesn’t have to take up great chunks of time; it can even be a five minute pause in a quiet corner of the office. Stopping for a second to collect your thoughts and taking a few deep breaths before or a meeting or conference call qualify too.

What about mindful dating; how does it work? If you’re trying to instill some mindfulness into your life, it’s a massive boon if your partner is on the same page. Sharing a life with someone who compliments your personality makes it much more straightforward to centre your attention on loving each other. Whether you share a faith, believe in zodiac compatibility, or just enjoy working as levellers for one another, our site is a great place to meet mindful singles.

Check out the mini-tips below for more information on why we’re a dating site that takes mindfulness seriously.

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Expert tips to help balance your life

One of the main reasons mindfulness has become more and more visible in our lives is a growing awareness of the benefits of slowing down. Countless studies have contributed to the idea that our psychological health has an enormous impact on our overall wellbeing, and combating stress is a good practice to instil. The majority of our members are busy professionals who’re all too familiar with the trials of finding a work-life balance.

Using a simple and transparent dating site is thus imperative. This is exactly why we provide our users with expert support in the form of in-depth dating advice articles, written by our in-house specialists. Not sure how to maximise your dating profile? Want to learn how to take the best profile photo? These questions, and many more, are all tackled in our accessible online publication, EliteSingles Magazine.

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Diverse members, common goals

One area of our platform we take great pride in is the diversity of our membership base. It’s not hard to confuse the “elite” in EliteSingles with elitism, but this couldn’t be further from the truth. In fact, our service strives to enable people from all walks of life to come together and get to know each other. One principle that unites our members is the desire to meet likeminded, mindful singles who are serious about finding love.

We have members eager to explore mindful dating who come from a myriad of backgrounds. For example, our site makes it possible for a member of the Asian community to meet LGBT singles, or for someone with Christian faith to fall in love with someone with Jewish heritage. These are just a few insights into the diversity of the single men and women registered with our site. That special someone could really be a few clicks away!

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Streamlining online dating

As touched upon earlier, mindfulness is all about finding space to take a timeout from life’s many commitments. To accomplish this, it makes sense to simplify unnecessary complications so you’ve got more time to tend to the important stuff. Our dating app is designed to facilitate exactly this. Available on both iOS and Android systems, our app can be integrated into your lifestyle with ease. Premium on-the-go dating is at your very fingertips!

If you’re eager to find out what real online dating is all about and connect with mindful singles, what are you waiting for? Register with EliteSingles today and discover a world of dating that’s fitted to your lifestyle, not the other way round. Being mindful takes a bit of effort, but once you’ve achieved it - and met someone who chimes with you - it’s all plain sailing!